Tuesday, December 25, 2007
It's good to be home!
Without the time zone change, I landed around 9:40 PM, but then spent the next hour standing in line for Customs. It took another 5 frantic minutes to locate my luggage as I'd been waiting in line so long that they had pulled everything off of the carousel and scattered them all about. By 11:30 PM I was finally home, although now it was 5:30 PM. It really wasn't that bad, but I was physically and mentally exhausted.
I can't even begin to say how nice it is to be home. I am so utterly content to sit on our couch and do absolutely nothing but think about how happy I am. I've had a wonderful Christmas, and in the next day or two I'll add a few stories and pictures from my last leg in Madrid. More importantly though, I want to thank each and every one of you for reading and humoring the last four months of my life. You (all) have been the motivation behind every time I've sat down and written a blog. Of course I've written it for myself as well, but I've written it well for you. And I appreciate that, because now I've got this fantastic collection of memories and stories that I will be forever thankful for composing. I would also like to add that despite my many references to alcoholic beverages, late nights out, and weekends spent gallivanting across Europe, I still managed to pull a 4.0 GPA for the semester. Yes, I did have a great time, but I also worked hard and studied. It's just that that sort of stuff is rather dry and boring compared to the Eiffel tower or the Austrian Alps, as you can imagine.
Now, I shall resume my Unpacking regime. Merry Christmas!
Thursday, December 20, 2007
Tres Abuelas ("Three Grandmothers")
As it worked out, I had checked the weather for Valencia the night we arrived, and learned that it was supposed to be rainy both days, but less so on Wednesday. So, we woke up Wednesday morning and were quite pleased to see that it was overcast, but not raining, and decided to spend the day exploring the Old City. We started with the Tourist Office, and were promptly armed with a map the size of a small Amish quilt. It proved to be much more helpful than the staff at the Office though, and so we continued on our way to the Museo Taurino- The Bullring Museum. I really enjoyed the exhibit; it was simple, but well done. The ring itself is pictured above, although in Valencia there are only bullfights three months out of the year, held during certain important festivals. Personally, I don't agree with it, but I still respect it as an important aspect of Spanish culture.
After our late lunch, it still had not begun to rain, so we ventured off to the Modern Art Museum. Though the exterior of the building looked like a Soviet bunker, the interior was significantly nicer. Even though I don't always "get" modern art, I love how it makes me feel. There's this sense of childlike wonder that I get from looking at pictures that resemble my scribbles in Kindergarten; but the sophistication of their nature is what really draws me in. In one exhibit, the artist, Jaume Plensa, chose to explore the use of letters as art-- strung across each room was a "wall" of metal letters dangling down like an alphabetical windchime through which you had to walk through to get to the next. Just beautiful, really.We certainly picked the right day to do things because this morning we woke up to a grey sky and intermittent rain. Our plan was to go to the City of Arts and Sciences and spend the better part of the day at L'Oceanografia-- the aquarium. For as small as the city feels, it's rather big to walk everywhere, so we took the bus. This is where the title comes from, because on the bus we were both looking at our map the size of an Amish quilt, trying to figure out where to get off, and while doing so a little abuela "Grandma" sitting behind us tells us we have a few more stops to go. Then another little abuela says that it is a lovely place, and we still have a few more stops, but see over there-- that's the Arts Building! And as the first abuela is getting off, another abuela tells us in broken English that it's just around the bend, "solo otra mas" or "one more stop." Here we are, American tourists speaking Spanish that probably sounds like nails grinding down a blackboard, and we have three Grandma's all making sure that we get to where we need to go. I love it! Que bueno!
I think I read somewhere that the new aquarium here is the third largest in Europe; maybe the world, but my memory is fuzzy. The Oceanografic facility is actually about a half mile to my right while I was taking this photo, but as you can see the buildings are incredibly modern. For the most part, we had the place to ourselves. One or two school groups, an occasional family, and a really nice couple from Ecuador that took our photo. The dolphin show was absolutely incredible-- I've never seen anything like it. The handlers spent just as much time in the water performing various tricks in stunts with the dolphins as they did out of the water. One even stood on the swimming dolphin like a surfboard! We were both very impressed with the variety of party tricks that were performed.
After the aquarium, we went down to the beach, which was very much asleep. Windy, rainy, and a bit chilly on the waterfront, I have no doubt that it's a wonderful place to be in the summertime (not so much in the middle of December). We took the bus back to the hotel, and from there I retired to my room and Shelley went to check out the Ceramics museum and a local market. I seem to have come down with another cold, so sleep is a must, in spite of the fact that I'd much rather be out and about. Around 9 o'clock, we walked about three storefronts down to a warm and welcoming little restaurant for dinner, and then walked about four storefronts in the other direction for gelato. Which brings me back to here, getting ready for bed once again, and preparing for the train ride tomorrow to Madrid.
Tuesday, December 18, 2007
Barcelona -> Valencia

After the tour, we set off in the direction of the Poble Espanyol. It was built for a World Exhibition, and is a relatively expansive community that shows the architecture and design of houses across the country.
We spent quite a few hours in the Poble, and then decided to check out a local flea market that was on the other side of the city. I think we came at the worst time because it was late afternoon and most people had already left or were packing up. What we did see was nothing to write home about. So, we got back on the metro and headed to the hostal. I was shocked, although I know I shouldn't be, as I witnessed the expertise of three pickpockets that were working their way along in the metro car. They had targeted a young girl standing across from me, who held a very large pocketbook and was listening to her iPod; she had no idea what was going on. I glared at the fellow who was about to dip his hand into her bag, and he immediatly retreated. I wasn't sure what to do though because I felt like if I pulled her, or her bag, towards me it would have created the ideal "distraction" for which they might steal something. So instead, I continued to glare and make it quite obvious that if they did anything I would personally rip their eyes out with a blunt spoon. I made eye contact with the girl and motioned for her to pull her bag close, and with that the theives got off at the next stop. Jerks. She was so thankful that I'd been watchful; I knew they hadn't stolen anything, but I hope she's more careful next time. I'd never actually seen pickpockets work, but now I understand how they work and how swift and horribly sneaky they can be. For that reason, I keep my money, passport, and credit cards in a money pouch that's around my neck and under my shirt at all times.
It was a decidedly quiet evening for the two of us, and the next morning we headed off to the Picasso Museum with the plans of catching an afternoon train to Valencia. The exhibit was very interesting in how it traced Picasso’s works from his early beginning in the late 1880’s, primitive sketches and such all the way through to his later Cubism era and ceramic innovation. I’d only really associated Picasso through his stereotypical portraits of strange-looking faces, but in fact the museum shows such a variety of his works that I walked away with a much more in-depth understanding of the artist than I had started the day with.
The train to Valencia was an incredibly simple affair—we bought our tickets, hung out in the station for an hour or so, boarded our train (which was on time) and then enjoyed the next 3 hours as we breezed down the coast. As I’ve said before, I love train travel because it allows you to really see the landscape—and in this case I was thoroughly enamored by the rocky cliffs and sandy beaches of the Spanish coastline. The ride is so smooth and quiet that you have to double check that there is indeed a boarding ticket in your pocket, and of course it was wonderful to arrive in the heart of Valencia’s city center. We were both pleasantly surprised that our hotel of choice had been recently renovated, and both modern and comfortable.
This evening we stopped by a small café that had great vibes, and chatted for quite some time over wine and a few tapas. Most restaurants here don’t open until 8:30 or 9pm, so we also had some time to kill before actually finding a place open for dinner. It worked out nicely though, as we moved from the cozy café to a Greek bistro down the block which had great food. We weren’t thrilled with eating Greek in Valencia, don’t get me wrong, but it was gooood. And so, here I am, very content and just about to head to bed. The good life, indeed.
Sunday, December 16, 2007
Barthelona!
As we were wandering from one vendor to the next, I noticed that many had this smiling creature that looked as if someone had put Rudolph's nose and two eyes on a piece of firewood and threw a blanket over it. Turns out "Caga Tio" is the Catalan Christmas tradition; his name translates roughly to "easing of the bowels" and on Christmas Eve he is set upon a mound of presents, which are then covered with a blanket. In the morning, little Catalan children come down and beat this smiling piece of firewood with a stick while singing a song that goes something like "Empty your bowels and poop out our gifts." Charming, really.You’re probably just as tired from reading all this as I was from actually doing it! We were all in need of a Siesta, so it was agreed that after a rest we should meet up again around 9:30 or so. I felt like a million bucks after a short nap, and was quite pleased with myself that I got to sample some authentic Catalonian Cava (sparkling wine). It was very good, to say the least. The night was still young after wine and tapas, so we headed over to a cheerful looking Irish Pub. Of course I ordered a Guinness (I’ve been reformed!) and it was just a good time to be had all around.
Aside from the museu, there wasn’t a whole lot going on in the city. We were both on the fence about stopping in Girona on the way back for an hour or so, but in the end opted to stay on the train and simply return to Barcelona. The way I see it, it’s just another reason to come back again sometime. This evening we took a paseo (stroll) along Las Ramblas, and were literally in awe at the sheer number of people that were out and about on a Sunday night. People hustling and bustling; most of the stores were still open too. Holiday shopping, perhaps?
The most shocking phenomenon for me is listening to a foreign language and actually understanding it. After four months in Hungary, knowing enough to get by but not enough to get the gist of a conversation, and then traveling in French and German-speaking countries, this whole Spanish thing is just dandy. The Castillian lisp makes my heart chuckle whenever I hear it (I think it sounds silly) but it doesn’t really make the Spanish any harder to understand. It’s just when they try to speak English that I’m thinking “What the hell are they saying??” Now that’s what I call irony!
Thursday, December 13, 2007
Goodbye Budapest
In regards to the dentist appointment earlier this week, I'm just fine. Between my traveling and excess stress with finals and moving out, it's undoubtedly made me vulnerable to such an inconvenience. That's life as it is. After the dentist, Shelley and I went to the thermal baths of the Gellert Hotel, and there is nothing better than soaking in the 38 degree Celsius pool. Sure, the system is so utterly confusing that you have to just go along with it, and the staff have attitudes like they've been working there 100 years and don't give a hoot whether you want to buy a massage or not, but it's Gellert. It's posh, esteemed, and beautiful.
The rest of the week has been a bit of a blur. I did some shopping with Shelley at the Central Market, bought some Hungarian Christmas ornaments to take back with me, and a few Christmas gifts. Shelley loved the fact that I knew where all the good stalls where with the best items for the most reasonable prices; she told me she would not have enjoyed Budapest as much as she has had I not been with her to give her advice, recommendations, directions and such. I would agree though; it's really nice to have a local show you around a city!
As kind of a way to wrap things up, I thought I'd post a few emails and such that I exchanged with my Mom and Dad in the first few days that I arrived...
Mom and Dad,
I just wanted to let you know that I made it to Budapest safe and sound. I'm exhausted, but very happy because all of my luggage arrived and in tact. I haven't seen any of the city yet, but we'll be doing a lot of that stuff this week...Now it's time for a nap! Love, Stacey
Stacey,
It is really nice to read your letter. I hope the Internet access works out. It probably will be fine to use the one at school...I hope you like your apartment. I am anxious to hear about it. You and Sarah will have a big grocery shop to do. That should be quite an experience in a Hungarian grocery store! Love, Mom
Hi Mom and Dad
I have been in Budapest for one day now, and I think I will like the city. I am so glad I took the Hungarian class- everyone is asking us questions about this and that so I feel a little special. We get our apartment tomorrow, and Sarah is very excited, but I'm not as much. Apparently it is quite nice though, and in a very central location of the city... Love, Stacey
Hi Sweetie,
Your blog will be widely read so here is some good advice: "Before you speak, ask yourself, is it kind, is it necessary, is it true, does it improve on the silence?" Love, Dad
Thank you Mom and Dad for all of your support!
I've also kept a running list of some cultural differences between Budapest and Glenelg...
- Water is "with" or "without" gas
- Tap water tastes good
- Very little smiling and friendliness
- Staring is an accepted practice
- So are elaborate displays of public affection
- No free refills, free water, or ice
- Smaller serving sizes of food
- Women show a lot more skin in warm weather
- Communist memorabilia
- Fresh seafood from the river or the Balaton
- No English cognates in language
- Greeting is one kiss on each cheek, left then right; called a "puszi"
- Dark at night
- Enforces a 10pm noise curfew
- Front flush shelf-toilets used
- Toilets have a big flush button, and a small flush button
- Fantastic public transportation
- Universal tip of 10%
- Paying with too big of a bill warrants the Look of Death
- Eating out, one must ask for the bill; it will not be given to you
- You see your waiter twice: once to give your order, and once to get your food
- Homeless people are everywhere
- Many buildings still have bullet holes
- In grocery stores, bring your own bag, and bag your own items
- Babies must always be wearing a hat starting October 1
- Open-air drinking is technically illegal, but never enforced
- Men and women always look "put together" in their outfits
- Hungarian women in politics must use "coquettish" means to climb the ladder
- The oppressed minority are the Roma, formerly known as 'Gypsies'
- No muffins, no cookies, no bagels
- One can find pig lard, knuckles, chicken legs, and just about every organ you can think of in the grocery store
- Most Hungarian wine is only sold domestically
- "Hungaricum" is a product patented by Hungary
- Many restaurants and stores do not take Visa or Mastercard
Those are just some of what I came up with; I'm sure there were many more that I've thought of as I'm going about my business but can't seem to recall at the moment. All in all, it's been a great experience. I've learned so much about people, traveling, history, and culture. I have a whole new perspective on the Nazi and Soviet terrors; of the extermination and labor camps. Sure, they teach us about it in school; but actually living in and experiencing the history for myself? That, for me, is life-changing. Budapest is so unique-- it's a gorgeous, run-down city that is on the rebound. Buildings are being renovated everywhere, and the younger generation is shedding the oppression that many of the older folks still carry from the Soviet era. I would love to come back and see the city someday, if only to see how much it has changed. Thank you Budapest, for all that you've shown me! It has been a truly unforgettable experience.
Monday, December 10, 2007
Bienvenida Aunt Shelley!
Funny thing though; I've realized that there are two things the always seem to make Hungarians smile. One is the sight of a baby or a young child. Their faces seem to light up at the garble of words and sounds, and the precious little features that we all know and love. The other is the sight of me walking down the street carrying an XXL pizza (just shy of two feet in diameter). I think it's hysterical how I march along and everyone seems to smile and laugh, sometimes even asking me if they can have a slice too. Aunt Shelley's eyes looked like saucers when she first saw how big the pizza is, but no worries, I assured her, whatever we don't finish I'll just have for breakfast. And so we munched on fantastic pizza and talked a bit about some of the things there are to do and see in Budapest.
That evening, after checking Shelley into the Marriott (the rooms are fantastic, by the way, and the view of the Danube...wow) and then set off for the Christmas market about a block away. I was really surprised at how many nice things there were at the market because the usual stuff that I've seen just isn't of the same quality. It was a rainy evening, so the market was quiet, and after strolling the booths we hopped on the old metro and set off for Hero's Square and City Park. Beautifully lit, I think the sights are just as nice at night as they are during the day. We ended the evening early- partly due to the weather and partly because I have to study too- but it was a nice way to introduce Shelley to Budapest.
This morning, however, I am filled with dread because I have to see a dentist. Much to my dismay, a gum infection has persisted for more than a week, and I am rather concerned because I'm going to be traveling for another week and a half before coming home. So, Dr. Mandy gave me the information for her own dentist (she's amazing) and they've managed to squeeze me in today for a cleaning. I have to be frank, going to a dentist in a country like Hungary is the absolute last thing I would ever want to do, but the circumstances make it unavoidable. The office speaks English, as does the dentist (who is from the U.S.) and the practice has a U.S. license, so as horrible as the notion is to me, I'm pretty darn lucky regardless. Wish me luck! I really hope it's nothing serious, or at least can wait till I get home.
Saturday, December 8, 2007
Statue Park
I find myself repeating over and over again that as wonderful as Budapest is, it's so tourist unfriendly that you have to laugh sometimes. Lucky for us, Sarah had gone a few weeks before and was able to warn us that finding the bus depot was a bit of a challenge as the signs to the park actually point you into the train station (opposite of the bus depot) and that the stop for the park was both quick to pass by and unannounced. Many, many students have described the phenomenon of watching the park go by before realizing that they should have pressed the 'Stop' button a minute or two ago. We, too, found ourselves scrambling to get off the bus once we realized where we were, but it was all in good spirit. With Stalin's great big boots looming above the entrance, it was rather obvious that we had come to the right place.
Some say that the park is the neatest thing; others will confess that it is a bit of a let-down. I kept an open mind about the whole thing and decided that although it wasn't as big as thought it would be, the whole concept of it and the rarity in the preservation of these statues and monuments made it very much worthwhile. Some of them seemed larger than life! Can you see me between the man's legs mimicking his pose? Really puts things in perspective doesn't it?
Overall, I really enjoyed walking around memories of days gone by. It's a once-in-a-lifetime experience, you could say, given that all other Communist artwork and such has been destroyed. It's a shame that they don't have more, but you really can't expect the oppressed to want to keep around things that remind them of their oppressors. I don't really have any other big plans for this weekend except for studying for my finals. It's really hard to believe that the semester is over. I just can't seem to wrap my mind around it. So many places, faces, new cities and new friends. Does it really have to end?
Yes, yes it does. But there is no better way to end it than in the company of loved ones. I am SO EXCITED to see Aunt Shelley and show her around Budapest, and then we're off to Spain-- where I actually speak a bit of the local tounge *phew* Until next...
Wednesday, December 5, 2007
An Irish Adventure
Words can't really describe the rugged beauty of the countryside...
The next morning we took the DART train to a small fisherman's town on a penninsula North of Dublin. We hiked along the coastline, in a seemingly perpetual state of wonder and amazement at how gorgeous this island was. It was very windy, and began to rain in the evening (we weren't surprised at this point) so we relaxed more or less in and around the hostel. By Monday, I really wasn't looking foward to leaving. Originally we had wondered what could be so great about a big old book, but after seeing the Book of Kells exhibit, I can now say "What isn't great about this big old book?" It was written more than 1,200 years ago and has been so preserved that one can still admire the intricate detailing of its images and manuscript. Pretty darn cool if you ask me.
And then it was back to Budapest, one last time. I am so very, very excited to see Aunt Shelley-- I think I might even be able to pick her up at the airport-- and then jet off to Spain! Goodness gracious, this has been one crazy semester...